Thursday, November 27, 2008

Got To Admit...

There's another one of my blogs on here, somewhere, called leap of faith. 

The only post was from May of 2007 about wanting to commit suicide and Jesus intervening with the Keith Urban song "Memories of Us". Apparently, God understands a young woman's need for a certain amount of smarm. For some reason, I always hear Jesus in country music. It sounds so sincere and earnest?... 

ANYWAY. Tonight, wanting to self-injure, decided to take it to the net to blog instead. I found leap of faith again, that moment came rushing back.

It reminded me of where I came from. As flinchy and FINE (fucked up, insecure, neurotic and, emotional) as I can be, I'm doing better than I've been in the last six years. Doing better than even three months ago. (Thanks to God and Bupropion!) More stable. 

It's weird, I longed for so long to be diagnosed with borderline personality disorder (only for my ex to tell me he had been. There's one of the 25% of males. Curses!). Then, at least, the rapid ups and downs, the dis-ease, un-ease, the fear of abandonment, would have a name. Even despite all the concern about labels in the psychology community, or at least, in the psychology lit available, I want a label. 

If you could give it a name, it seems, you could compartmentalize it, make it smaller than what it is. What is it, you ask? 

What it is, at times, is debilitating. 

Hell if I know. But it's getting better finally. 

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